how are you?

yep, not exactly a difficult question, and yet, he seems largely incapable of asking it...

what is that? seriously, what is that?

bad parenting?
doesn't care?
doesn't realise that when someone asks you that, it's polite to ask them the same?
doesn't get that friends actually ask each other how they are?

seriously, i think it's just rude, and now that my eyes are open, the rose coloured glasses are well and truly off, the fantasy is dead, well i just find it annoying...

of course i'm still going car shopping with him tomorrow although based on how i feel right now, i'm not sure it's a good idea...i think he'll be weird coz it's happening during the day...and then, i'm having dinner at his house and watching more Revenge...really? this from the man who is only in the casual frame of mind right now and doesn't want a relationship...sure! we spent Sunday night together, we're going car shopping tomorrow, on Monday night he's asking me when i'm free to watch more Revenge, I give him a couple of options and he says 'both?'...yep, this is definitely weird...

and sure, maybe he really does only want to be friends, but he fancies me (we both know this, he's admitted to it on more than one occasion), he knows i did fancy him (although i'm not sure how clued in he is to my diminishing feelings in that regard), but it seems he just can't get enough of me...and yes, on some level that's flattering, but it's also a bit confusing....

anyway, i'm doing fine, in fact GREAT, thanks for asking!